What I notice whenever a woman likes me a lot, the one thing that they always tell me is that they “just cannot you”. It’s a common thing that I hear from women when they really like you. They cannot read you. “I don’t know what you’re saying with that face”.
A lot of guys, unfortunately, are too transparent. The reason why is that you have dating coaches out there that advocate for guys to act like clowns. You have dating coaches out there that advocate for guys to act like jokesters and who think that entertaining a woman–which I used to think too because I was trained through pick up. We were thought to entertain women and get their attention because they barely know you but outside pick up, it looks like clown sht/creepy sht. When you’re on a date with a woman or if you work or study with a woman, learn to be more serious than she is. It’s that simple.
Be more serious than she is. If she’s at a fuckng seven of seriousness, you’re at an eight or even a nine. Learn to speak less with a woman. Learn to get her to talk more than you talk. The less you talk, the more she talks and the more she talks, the more she reveals herself. The more she talks, the more that she’ll rationalize that she likes you.
A woman will know that if she’s talking a lot, deep down, maybe there’s a reason why she’s talking so much in the conversation or maybe there’s a reason why she’s doing most of the work. By making her talk more during the date, in her mind, she might say, “The only time when I talk this much on a date is when I really like the guy”.
Simmer your non-verbals, talk a little slower, respond a little slower.