These are the things that you may do that will scare the guy away. The biggest one is when you fall in love fast. When you start falling in love after the first date and you start fantasizing about being with them and stuff with them. You don’t love them that’s just ego and you just want to find yourself through this relationship.

So how do you control it? You have to control your fantasies. When you control your fantasies and stop imagining things you pretty much lower expectations and lower your emotional response. 

How do you tell it’s real love? Well, it takes time you go out with a guy and you like him. It’s a red flag when you feel the spark on your first date. But also pay attention to who does he remind you of.  Because if you’re someone because you see someone in them that’s trauma.