Today we’re going to talk about the last step to gently guiding him to go from i like you to i love you. Sometimes a guy could love you and he doesn’t know it yet. When you try to find out how much he loves you too soon, it could potentially turn him off. You have to learn to inflict pain. It is the pain that will make him realize how much he loves you. You just make him fear of losing you. He’s not going to think you’re cheating, he’s just going to think you’re losing interest.