Today we’re going to talk about the number one thing to avoid when you first meet a man and that’s when a man speeds it up.

A lot of times, a lot of you ladies expose yourselves for being needy and desperate when you allow a man to speed up a relationship. Little do you know that if you actually protest and slow it down, it gives you power.

Don’t be fooled. You’re not that lovable when someone could fall in love with you that fast, it’s usually a projection. Nobody can love a person that quickly for the most part. Whenever you see it, assume it’s a projection. If you ever encounter a guy that after the first time you guys banged, he wants a relationship with you, you’re not that lovable. People need time to fall in love with you. They don’t really know you. They’re not falling in love with you for seeing you for who you are.