Never let a woman make you impatient. That’s their main strategy against men, women make you want them more as soon as possible. This is one of those things that’s easier said than done but just like every other predator out there, they always have a weakness.
For us men, we’re the one who always chases, we’re the one that has more resources but women also have the same strategies that work almost as well as ours and that is they give you the hope that something’s gonna happen. When they give you that hope, you latch on to it so hard sometimes that when it doesn’t happen, it completely ruins your day. So, what’s the solution for this? It’s very simple. You gotta have a long-term vision. That’s the only way for you to be able to withstand their attacks. I know that having a busy life–finding your purpose in life and trying to master your skill–helps you and gives you something to focus on but sometimes, you have a nice piece of a** coming to you.
Sometimes, you sort of put things on the side because this thing looks certain–she sounds certain, she sounds happy–but then what happens? She cancels on you and you feel like shit. As much as you guys try to act like it doesn’t hurt you, it fucking hurts but you know what helps? Expanding your view of time and not focusing on the little rejections. Expand your vision and look at it from the macro perspective.
The way you battle a woman’s strategy of creating impatience in you is by you keeping your vision on the longterm.