Today we’re going to talk about the psychology of men during no contact.

First of all, most people, they’ll be able to hold on for a few days or maybe even a few weeks. The goal of no contact is to make the guy submit to you in a weird way, to make him come chasing back or to right a wrong that he did or to give you more leverage but the core of no contact is to inflict pain. This is the type of pain that men feel:

1. Envy and jelousy- men naturally feel competition. Every action that you do could potentially mean that you found another guy. It’s a lot easier to project things that are not there and if you’re trying to make him jealous, don’t be so obvious because he’s paying attention to everything.

2. A desire to connect with you – because there’s no oxytocin. What would happen if he actually loved you or liked you and you made no contact with him, it’s gonna make him long for a connection.