what women need to know about men
You gotta understand that most important part and it is something that even guys must understand about women. This is the first okay, when somebody likes you, it’s so obvious – you don’t have to google how to get them. When somebody genuinely likes you, you don’t have to struggle to keep them, you don’t have to struggle to get them to ask you out on a date. You don’t have to struggle to get them to text you back or call you. When somebody likes you they’d start doing the work. They start doing the chasing, they start asking you out, they start calling you. You call them and they pick up – there should be no resistance. But the moment that you feel any resistance or avoidance then that person simply does not like you.
Sometimes we are just blinded and in denial because of the polite front or excuses that we end up justifying that may be just really busy or not available that we end up hoping and waiting.
Second, you gotta understand that men take time to process their emotions. Men and women are very much different in terms of processing emotions. Women think that men like “suppressing” feelings, but in reality they really just take longer time to process emotions and sometimes men may not express it verbally. Men tend to seek expression of their feelings physically.
Third is, there are certain levels as to how men can love you sometimes. Most of the time they assess if they really want to be in a relationship with a woman after two or three months, so if after that and he tells you he likes you but just doesn’t want to be in a relationship yet, then do not believe that. There may be times when a relationship may progress overtime but if you guys are friends with benefits for more than three or five months and he doesn’t ask for more, then trust me, that’s all your relationship will be and it’s not going to change.
