When you stop caring, your personality changes. This usually happens when you’re so engaged with your own life that you actually even forget about dating.
The lack of interest that you have towards women because of lack of testosterone sometimes makes women attracted to them.
When you have an interest in your life that takes up most of your time, that you’re passionate about, women will try to compete with your time as a result.
When you stop caring about what they think, when you stop caring whether or not she’s going to be with you, it’s actually attracted to women.