Today, I'm making a very important video for you guys. The reason why I'm calling this important is that it explains a lot of the frustrating things that come with dating women. This is the reality of giving women space and why you got to give them space.
When you're talking to people, naturally, you're not really looking at them. You rarely meet people and you treat them for who they are and you see and judge them based on who they really are. Usually, the way we're judging people is based on our own projections. Everything that we process, we process it through a fog of emotion and it changes the way that we perceive it.
Women go from relationship to relationship and negative things happen and they project it as fantasy maybe because they assumed that it'll make them happy. Then as a result, if being with you makes me happy, this is a very important thing and it has to happen. When women see you, they don't see you. They see a fantasy that's why you could treat them like shit and they'll still come back to you because, in their heads, they think that this fantasy is what they need to be happy. They think that it's something that they could control.
Keep your distance. The more time you spend with someone, the more you could really see the fog of emotion (unless they're abused so hard that they don't have space to think rationally). That's the only way that you could stay with somebody and still treat them like shit and they can still stay with you-- because they can potentially be getting abused or they have such a traumatic past that they don't have the mental strength to think rationally.
Whenever you spend a lot of time with that woman, she'll naturally feel less and less emotion and you will naturally make her stop feeling irrational, that's why you can't see them every day. That's why, with the girl that you like, you got to give her that space because if you don't then she'll stop projecting. She'll just naturally get to know you.
It's always important, for the sake of you keeping that girl, to give her space. By giving her space, it gives more room for her projections to play in her mind.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course... click here.